If you're struggling to claim your creative identity as a writer -- or to reclaim it -- there are a few things to keep in mind.
- Write regularly. Consistent daily writing will help you find your way back to your writing identity. Binge-bust writing patterns don't create a sustainable sense of identity. Writing on a regular basis does.
- Introduce yourself as a writer. Decide that you are a writer and say so when you talk to people. If you're on social media, put "writer" on your account profiles.
- Validate yourself as a writer. Stop looking for permission outside yourself to known or validated as a writer. Reward yourself for overcoming the resistance to writing EVERY DAY.
- Be clear about what it means to be a writer. Try on the idea that writers write. And then make sure you're doing that. Try letting go of the idea that you have to be paid before it "counts". Or published. Or on the big screen. Writers write.
- Take your dream of writing seriously. Don't treat it as something to be shoehorned in around the edges. Design your life around your writing -- not the other way around. Align all your levels of experience (surroundings, beliefs, values, actions, etc.) with your writing.
- Look for positive messages about writing. There are lots and lots and LOTS of people out there ready and willing to tell you how impossible it all is, that you/they will never make it, and it's too hard. Choose to put yourself around people who know there is always a way in, even if you/they haven't found it yet.
- Surround yourself with other (positive) writers. Your consciousness is affected by the people around you. Put yourself in situations where other people see you as a writer (classes are a great place to start). If you're on social media, fill your feed with writers. Hang out with writers -- but make sure they're the writers that know that succeeding as a writer is possible.
Thanks for reading!
If you're in Berkeley, join me this Friday for a workshop at HackerMoms called "Claim Your Identity as a Writer." This special in-person workshop will be a combination of a "green fire" release ceremony to let go of our old identities and an NLP process to integrate the new writer's identity we want to hold. http://bit.ly/HM-writer-identity
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~> Friday, December 6, 10 to noon, an in-person workshop in Berkeley through Mothership HackerMoms (location details provided to attendees only). "Claim Your Identity as a Writer." This special in-person workshop will be a combination of a "green fire" release ceremony to let go of our old identities and an NLP process to integrate the new writer's identity we want to hold. http://bit.ly/HM-writer-identity
~> Tuesday, December 17 through Friday, December 20, Daily at 2:30 Pacific Time. I'm hosting a free teleclass series called "Design Your Writing Life". I'd love to have your input on issues you'd like to hear covered here: http://jennaavery.com/writing-life-questionnaire. Stay tuned for registration details coming next week!
~> Thursday, January 2nd, Last day to register for the Writer's Circle AT 2013 RATES. Register by January 2nd for the next session of my Writer's Circle (starts Monday, January 6th). Build a solid habit of daily writing and finish all your writing projects: http://JustDoTheWriting.com.
~> Writing. Just got some feedback on Luminal so I'll be on to the next round of work on that one, in addition to beginning some early rewrites on Rift. Also working on my Sci-Fi Circuit column over at ScriptMag.com.
~> Learning. Continuing my classes with ScreenwritingU.
~> Unplugging. Back to unplugging one day per weekend, usually Saturdays.
~> Reading. Between books again! I seem to be on a binge-reading cycle. Time for a change. :)
Thanks for reading.